Hayley
Registered Childminder Job In Stafford
Female Member since Dec 2024 Last Updated Dec 2024 Last Login 17 Dec 2024
About Me
Hi I'm currently a very tired single mother to two daughters age 5 and 9.
I am reaching out to find a nanny/babysitter to lighten the load as honestly I am struggling and need some rest/help.
I need help with my 5 year old that is non verbal autistic with global development delay. I've reached our several times for government and family help however this has been unsuccessful.
So I am taking matters into my own hands in search to pay for help.
This is mainly as I do not get enough sleep along with meeting my daughters extra needs.
I feel if I had more restbite I'd be able to keep up with my daughter more and be able to enjoy the good times more if I was more energised and able to take care of myself better.
I home educate my oldest daughter as her sleep is interrupted by my youngest too and she was falling to sleep in class. Along with having learning difficulties of her own that was not met at school but is doing better being home educated.
I'm on the go constantly and I really just need time to take care of myself not to be selfish but in order to be a better mom by getting some rest and support.
My Requirements
I'd like to find a nice,patient,caring and kind nanny/baby sitter to assist my 5 year old daughter that has special needs.
She attends a special school Monday to Friday I'm looking for some late afternoon/evening help to occupy her for a few hours after school and help on some weekends to help wear out her energy I.e change of scenery,day out or time at a park or even support gracie within our home if I need to do house chores or self care things that are hard to do when she's around.
She is a very happy,cheeky and loving girl.
She has alot of energy and loves outdoors and to stay active withing the home.
I suspect she has adhd something I'm pushing a referal for as she is very hyper and is only still when asleep or in a deep focus.
It's important to keep her occupied otherwise she can get very fustrated.
She is non verbal and does not have danger awareness so you must give her your undevided attention.
She loves nature ,running around ,playing with a ball and going to parks.
She loves swings we have one in the house to help regulate her.
She loves to jump & make dens with sparkly lights.
Her favourite shows are minnie mouse Boutique and baby sensory on YouTube.
Favourite films are toy story,encanto
She absolutely loves music and dancing.
Simple songs on YouTube is also a favourite as she tries so hard to sing and copt movements with her hands.
She can follow simple instructions and is toilet trained.
She requires reigns when on a walk to ensure she does not run off.
She can get distressed if she is struggling to find a way to communicate her needs or lack of understanding to why she can't do something if its dangerous. She can scream and appear angry... counting to 10 and having care and patience can calm her down.
She can throw things in temper if not calmed down this is out of frustration if she does not understand something or struggling to regulate her emotions. However along as occupied and her needs are met this behaviour is low possibility.
It took alot of strength to reach out for paid help as I love her so much its just hard to meet her extra needs and energy levels when she isn't sleeping well and I'm not getting much sleep as a result.
It's very difficult to admit I want/need help with my child. I'm hoping this will benefit us all as a family :)
| Mon | Tue | Wed | Thu | Fri | Sat | Sun | |
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| Before School | no | no | no | no | no | no | no |
| Morning | no | no | no | no | no | no | no |
| Afternoon | no | no | no | no | no | yes | yes |
| After School | yes | yes | yes | no | no | no | no |
| Evening | yes | yes | yes | no | no | yes | yes |
| Overnight | no | no | no | no | no | no | no |
| Last Updated: 16/12/2024 | |||||||
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